Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Change, the only constant entity...

I am redeeming this blog after a period of 7 years. A lot has happened since then. This post is not about enumerating the events, but a platform to thrust out few observations I have made.

I am a stronger believer of making maximum use of whatever life has in reserve for you. We have ventured  ourselves in numerous things. At times, the moment has been awkward, we forbid ourselves from thinking about it and on the contrary, some have been very pleasant, which we cherish! This blog does not site any  cheeky moments . They are mere observations which will feature itself in one's learning curve..

Maturity comes with age, a fact well known. More often than not, somehow people fall short of what is expected! To overrun, I was told to never expect from others. As a matter of fact, you need to be super human if you had to do that. Clearly, I was not. This created a rift..

Vulnerability is a very troubling disease. It puts one in such a defenseless, unprotected state and to overcome the same, becomes an uphill task! Somehow I misinterpreted myself as a rebel. Even before I embarked myself upon the issue, I proved out to be extremely delicate..

I guess being extremely attached to your dear ones will prove to act like a web. We entangle ourselves voluntarily and very conveniently bombard the accusation on them. 

By far the killer, loneliness, accompanies through each of these stages! I was devastated. I saw myself stranded, trying to still sail the fierce ocean. Someday, I hope, I reach my destiny. Else, like I mentioned earlier, life is once. Do not be startled if the wind steers you to another direction! 

Remember, everything in life has an explanation. Final struggle to acceptance has four stages that precede it - denial, anger, negotiation and depression. Well, the good news is, it is at least accepted! 

I am not sure if you found a cohesion in the post. Let me clarify, I do not expect you to as they are mere citations. This has been my learning curve, trust me, not been easy!